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The Enemy of My Enemy is my Friend: (A Life Story)

I've been a Hawks fan for my entire life.  The good years, the bad years, etc...
For the 28 years I've been on this planet, I've admired hockey.  I love everything about it.
I love the speed, the finesse, the brutality, watching 20,000 fans jump to their feet in unison.

My loyalty has always been to the Indian.  But I now have a little bit of Blue Blood running through my veins.

Let me explain.

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I meant to post this after the game back in December, the night before the first Blues/Hawks game but well, I just got lazy and busy with the holidays.  So I'm posting it now after the brutal Blues/Hawks game last night. 


If I get a chance to catch an NHL or AHL game in any city, I'm going.  I always find it fun to sit in another team's arena and just take in their presentation of the game.  The music, the traditions, the crowd chants.  Watching how someone else does it can make your home team's traditions even more important.

I was in St. Louis in December for some medical tests, and the Blues were playing the Flames.  It was also Brett Hull hall of fame night.  I found some 300 Level tickets on ticketmaster's ticket exchange the night before and I was in for under $25.  

The day of the game, I was at my doctors for only an hour or two, then I went out shopping and to just hang around the city.  Hit the Budweiser Brewery tour, went by the Galleria in Brentwood.  All day I was wearing my Blues jersey and my Blackhawks hat.

I had no less than 3 people ask me how I could be wearing Blues and Hawks gear together.  These were people I just ran into during my day, hours before the game and not even near the Scottrade center.  

A female employee at Gamestop asked me about it, and then said she was bummed that she couldn't go to the hall of fame night for Hull because she was working late.  Someone in another store, also asked how the blue and white was getting along with the red and black.

The short answer, and the one I responded to those inquiries was: "Anyone but Detroit, right?" and everyone agreed with me.  The long answer is a little more involved, and after the game I decided to write about it here.

The game itself was great, I got parking outside the Scottrade center for $5, try getting that around the United Center without losing a few windows.  We got in early, and got to our seats.  The Scottrade center is actually about the same age as the UC, however, it feels a little older to me.

In the 300 level the highest seats are against the wall, there is no walkway around the top rim like the United Center.  The atmosphere is fun, and sitting in the 300 level, I was definitely surrounded with hardcore fans, which is always fun.  I saw a ton of Oshie jerseys, which was cool.  At the USA Olympic orientation camp back in the summer in Woodridge, IL, Oshie was the only player that really caught my attention.  At one point, he blasted a slap shot from just inside the right corner of the zone, that beat Tim Thomas like he never saw the puck, and this was during free skate warmups.  I was really disappointed that he didn't make the squad going to Vancouver.

The hall of fame presentation was very awesome.  Lots of former Blues were there to celebrate Hull's carreer, including Cujo and Gretzky.  It was nice, and the crowd really got a kick seeing all the former blues that came to the event.  The other suprise, was that they commissioned a Brett Hull statue to stand alongside the statues of Bernie Federko and Al MacInnis.

At one point someone yelled "I hate Mike Keenan" and it was obvious Hull heard, and chuckled a little, as did the crowd within earshot of the yeller.

The game itself was exciting, back and forth.  The Blues looked like a young team.  There were many missed passes, especially on the PP, which the crowd did not like.  Honestly, this Blues team really reminds me of the Hawks in 2007, when they missed the playoffs by 3 points, but you knew this team was going to be fierce for quite a while.  I fully expect the Blues and Hawks to be leading the division for the next 3-5 years.

Story about the HOF night for Hull  http://dailyme.com/story/2009121600000045/blues-erect-statue-honor-brett-hull.html

The game ended in the best possible way, sending Calgary home with no points, after a beautiful goal by Oshie with about 4 minutes in the 3rd to give the Blues the 4-3 edge.  I did have some questions for the Blues faithful, that they can answer for me.  (this is being posted at both Second City Hockey, and St. Louis gametime).  After each goal there was what I think was a woman, in the 300 level that was leading the crowd with a countdown of the goals, I think she threw a towel or shirt once as well.  It was cool and the crowd got into it, can someone tell me exactly who that is, how it started and what exactly it's all about?

This was actually my first Blues game.  I was in St Louis, for an annual medical check up.  About two years ago, in August of 2007 I moved to St Louis.  I rented an apartment in The Hill neighborhood, and brought my girlfriend with me.  I had lived in Sycamore, IL basically my entire life.  Sycamore is about 60 miles west of Chicago, and right next to Northern Illinois University in Dekalb.  So moving to St Louis made me a  little bit nervous.  

I was born in 1982.  For the first 3 months of my life I didn't really gain weight.  I ended up in the hospital, for "failure to thrive".  I was finally taken to a doctor that diagnosed me with Cystic Fibrosis

Cystic Fibrosis, is a genetic disease that effects many parts of the body, but mainly the lungs.  The body basically had a mucus buildup in the lungs that causes scarring and slowly reduces lung function.  I really didn't have much problems until high school.  I had been playing Soccer since I was 5, and took up hockey in Jr High, (roller hockey, because there were no ice rinks around Dekalb).  In high school I started noticing it was getting harder to exert myself.  I would cough a lot as I tried to get the junk out of my lungs.  It was hard to put on weight as CF also effects the pancreas which lacks the necessary enzymes to digest food.  I have to take enzymes when I eat to help digest my food.

I graduated in 2000 and started college.  Over the next years I slowly got worse.  Spending a week in the hospital every year became common.  Then it was every 9 months, then twice a year.
At one point I was 104 pounds.  (I'm 6 foot 2) in May of 2007 after a stay in the hospital and 2 weeks of IV antibiotics at home, I was put on oxygen full time.  My lung function was hovering around 15-20%.  My pulse was usually around 120-150 constantly, even while sleeping.  My doctor told me that it's time to look into getting listed for a double lung transplant.  He said that if it was his child, he would go to Barnes Hospital in St. Louis.

In July of 2007 my parents and I drove to St Louis, for a week long battery of tests and evaluation for a transplant.  After the week, I was told I was a prime candidate for transplant, and I would be listed once I made arrangements to move to St Louis.   I moved to St Louis with my girlfriend on Aug 25, 2007.  I didn't have much to do, other then go to pulmonary rehab for an hour each day,  We explored the city and quickly fell in love with it. 

In November, two of my friends planned on driving down to visit, and we decided to catch a Blues game.  The day before they were to come down, I got a call at 4:25 am, telling me to go to the hospital as a matching donor had been found.

On November 12, 2007 (Veterans day), I went into surgery at 1:00PM and successfully had 2 new lungs transplanted into me by 7:30 that night.  I remember waking up the next morning and being able to breathe.  It was amazing.  I got out of the hospital in 8 days.   I stayed in St Louis doing rehab for 3 months, and on Feb 15, 2008 I moved back home to Illinois.

About a week after I moved home, I got a card in the mail.  It was fowarded to me from Barnes Hospital.  Inside there was a photocopy of a hallmark card, that said:

"I was married to my husband Eric for 4 years, we have a son.  He was an installation installer, and a die hard St Louis Blues fan" signed Angelia.


I bought a Blues jersey the next week.  I now have some Blue Blood.  My heart will always be warm for the city of St Louis, the Blues, and a fan named Eric, whose decision to be an organ donor, changed my life forever.

In June of 2008, I joined my friends in a local roller hockey league, and played hockey for the first time in over a decade.

I wanted to write this, because there's a good chance that you sat in the arena with Eric.  You might have stood behind him in the line at the concession stand, or high fived him along with everyone in your section after a game winning goal.  I wish I would have been able to meet him, he is my hero and I think about him and the gift he has given me every day.

Since I can't thank Eric, I now try to see everyone as a potential "Eric" for someone else, and I try to "pay it foward", especially with hockey fans.  I hope to one day meet Eric's family and take them to a Blues game.  I know that Eric would be happy this his lungs are getting used to their fullest, every shift I play.

On a side note, I don't want to be preachy, or anything, but 1 organ donor literally saved my life, and probably a few others.  The reason the card I got was a photocopy, is because the average organ donor is able to be a donor to 7 individuals, changing and saving lives.  Please take a monent and make sure your drivers license is signed if you're an organ donor, if you live in a state with a registry, please take the 10 minutes to sign up, and please discuss with your family your choice to give life.


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Newspaper Article May 2009

 

Posted on Second City Hockey

http://www.secondcityhockey.com/2010/1/3/1231371/the-enemy-of-my-enemy-is-my-friend

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Posted on St . Louis Game Time

http://www.stlouisgametime.com/2010/1/3/1231370/the-enemy-of-my-enemy-is-my-friend

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Great story,

and you got the one thing that truly matters,

“Anyone but Detroit, right?”

SHOOOOOOOT!!!! Anon

by burpchelischili on Jan 3, 2010 5:29 AM CST reply actions   1 recs

This is what hockey is about

"Nothing is True, Everyting is Permitted"

by stlAJ on Jan 3, 2010 11:13 AM CST reply actions  

Welcome to the blues

My lungs were pretty gimped when I was younger too, I know your pain. Not that im complaining but you could have went the other way with it and just became an installation installer.

by Icion on Jan 3, 2010 11:15 AM CST reply actions  

What a great story

You had me crying at the end.
I’m glad that in her pain of loss that woman was able to pass on life.

by luvhockey on Jan 3, 2010 12:06 PM CST reply actions  

Great story

This is the kind of thing I think about when people are griping about how they don’t understand the appeal of sports. It’s this, everything in this from the little interactions to the joy of getting to finally play again.

by Perrowned on Jan 3, 2010 1:14 PM CST reply actions  

Now THAT, is a classy Hawks fan.

Awesome story dude.

"Brad Winchester playing on a line with Perron and Berglund is like the fat kid who you invite to play one day because you didn't have enough skaters, yet you don't have the heart to tell them to leave the next few times you play. Damn you Andy Murray." -Author Unknown

by -DJ- on Jan 3, 2010 9:44 PM CST reply actions  

Great story

If you ever need anything during a stay in St. Louis, you have the help of this Blues fan.

I’ve been listed as an organ donor for five years, and encourage my friends to donors whenever possible.

by stlchapman on Jan 4, 2010 12:37 AM CST reply actions  

great story!!

I’m glad you had a positive experience at the Scott, too. There’s a lot of similarities between the two teams, so it’s not a surprise that you take a liking to ours as well. You’ll find a lot in common with Mike Martin in that regards.

I’ve read a little about organ transplant patients, sounds like things are going pretty well. I hope things keep getting better – we’re proud to have ya ‘round. Let us know when you’re coming back to St Louis in the future.

.... formerly "Tim" of StLouisGameTime.com

by CrossCheckRaise on Jan 4, 2010 12:39 AM CST reply actions  

This was a great story

Glad to see that when it comes down to it people are still pretty cool despite all the crazy crap that happens. Go Blues and this actually decreases my hatred of Chi. Belfour you still suck!

by Whatablue on Jan 4, 2010 12:55 AM CST reply actions  

From 63 to 67 the St. Louis Hockey team was the St. Louis Braves. They wore the Indian and a little

of the Love of that Logo still resides in me. Yes I am A 100% Blues fan and have been since fall 67. However if Chicago is playing anyone but the Blues I pull for Chicago. Is anyone reading this old enough to possibly have this disease? Berenson Geezer

by hoozis on Jan 4, 2010 1:19 AM CST reply actions  

While I never saw them

my Grandma used to tell me stories about sneaking into the Eagles hockey games in the mid 30’s. She lived in an apartment with girlfriends at the Oakland/Kingshighway intersection. They would walk down Oakland and knock on a door. The boyfriend of one of the girls would let them in.
I never saw the Braves play but went to my first of many Blues games in ’68 at the age of 5.
I guess I got my hockey love from my Italian immigrant Grandma.

by luvhockey on Jan 4, 2010 7:35 AM CST up reply actions  

Hoozis, I don’t have that condition, but my dad sure did. Getting Glenn Hall made it really easy for him to adopt the Blues right away.

Lighthouse Hockey: Eyes on Tavares, mug full of Moulson.

by Dominik on Jan 4, 2010 11:31 AM CST up reply actions  

Went to my first game at the Old Barn

Dad and I rode the bus down from Maplewood to see the Braves in 1966.

No trace of Chicago love in me though. Dad liked the Cubs, Bears and all Chicago teams since he lived and worked there for a few years but I had a doc check to make sure it wasn’t passed on.

[shudder]

Some days its just not worth chewing through the restraints

by spectr17 on Jan 4, 2010 1:28 PM CST up reply actions  

I hate all Chicago

teams except the the Blackhawks and I hate the Hawks when they play the Blues. I root for two teams constantly, the Blues and whoever plays Detroit. Berenson Geezer

by hoozis on Jan 4, 2010 9:08 PM CST up reply actions  

This is an awesome story

Not often a hockey fan starts getting wet eyes, but…. damn. Ya got me man.

Fear the Fin: "C'mon Drew, we're going streaking!" - Randy Hahn, 12/31/09

by Conico do Mayo Miracle on Jan 4, 2010 1:36 AM CST reply actions  

I cried, too.

Great story, thank you for sharing. :)

by oic on Jan 4, 2010 3:22 AM CST reply actions  

Jesus Christ...

… i’ve been reading this site for awhile but haven’t commented before, and I’ve been a Blues fan since before Jeff Brown scored in OT against the Leafs (which is one of my earlier Blues memories), but I’ve never heard anything quite like this.

Congrats to you, kudos to you, and I hope everyone follows your advice and signs their donor cards.

by kindred on Jan 4, 2010 4:47 AM CST reply actions  

Thanks for sharing

I just signed the back of my Pennsylvania Driver’s License.

by briandunne on Jan 4, 2010 7:59 AM CST reply actions  

Hope you find Eric

Awesome story thanks for sharing!!!!

by Woodn on Jan 4, 2010 10:23 AM CST reply actions  

Great story in so many ways
I know that Eric would be happy this his lungs are getting used to their fullest, every shift I play.

Wow. Cheers to you and Eric. Cheers to Blues lungs in a Hawks fan. Cheers to Barnes and to hockey, too.

Lighthouse Hockey: Eyes on Tavares, mug full of Moulson.

by Dominik on Jan 4, 2010 11:38 AM CST reply actions  

What a wonderful story.

Glad to hear you are doing well, and best of luck in your future endeavors.

And don’t be a stranger around here either!

"Procrastination is the art of keeping up with yesterday." -- Don Marquis

by Donut King on Jan 4, 2010 12:59 PM CST reply actions  

Incredible.....

This is so much more than hockey, but no matter how bad the world seems, there are people like Eric and Chris that can just inspire people. wish you the best. Go Blues!

you smell that? that's what a winner smells like....

by stonewall jackson on Jan 4, 2010 1:17 PM CST reply actions  

Dayum, must be lots of dust in herah

cuz my eyes are getting all misty.

How am I sposed to continue my “Doom On The Blackhawks & Their Fans” campaign when you go and post something like that?

Heck of a story and example of not ever giving up your passion. I’ve been listed as a donor since I first started making fake MO state driver’s licenses to buy beer as a kid.

Some days its just not worth chewing through the restraints

by spectr17 on Jan 4, 2010 1:25 PM CST reply actions  

This is why I adore hockey.

I swear, this is the only sport where you hear people telling stories like this, or you have someone sending a note specifically saying that the donor was a Blues fan… hockey fans are a special breed of people – we all love the sport, and we all have a little bit of humanity in common, despite what team we cheer for.

Unless you’re a Wings fan. Then you have no humanity.

But thank you for posting this – it made me tear up completely. I’m glad that everything’s working out for you, and you have my best wishes for the future – don’t be a stranger!

Reporter: There`s a "stamp out the Beatles movement" underway in Detroit. What are you going to do about it?

Paul McCartney: We`re going to start a campaign to stamp out Detroit.

by hildymac on Jan 4, 2010 8:02 PM CST reply actions  

Wow.

Just wow.

Thank you for sharing your incredible story.

Let's go Blues!!!

by Milo. on Jan 4, 2010 11:05 PM CST reply actions  

Great story. Thanks so much for sharing.

Follow the Penguins on SBN @ Pensburgh.com and twitter.

by FrankD on Jan 5, 2010 2:39 PM CST reply actions  

Giving back

Since i really cant be an organ donor now because of all the drugs I’m taking, I’ve found other ways to give back.

First, when I was in STL, I went to the Body Worlds exhibit. It was at the Museum of Science and Industry a few years ago. I signed up to have my body used for medical teaching, or future exhibits, which I thought was a cool way to donate.

Also, I ended up mentoring patients with Cystic Fibrosis that are beginning the lung transplant process. When I was getting evaluated I met with Scott, a guy with CF who had a transplant in 2003. His insight about what to expect, some tips, etc, really helped a great deal during my 6 months in STL. There were many times were something would happen and I was like "oh yeah, scott told me about that".

 So now, I’m able to help out others the way Scott helped me. In fact one of the patients of the same doctor I see in Chicago, had his transplant about a year after me. We’re actually both huge hockey fans, and have a monthly poker game now.

When I was in STL, I kept a photo blog, so that in the future I could show others what to expect and just have a first hand experience out there for people to read.
If anyone wants to read it, or knows someone who is waiting for a transplant feel free to send them to www.thebonzos.com (it’s a nickname my dad had for me and my sister)

I tried to document everything I could. The only thing I didn’t post are the actual surgery pictures, because not everyone can handle them. Scott told me to buy a disposable camera and put it in a plastic bag and give it to the nurse so I’d have pictures of the surgery, and I did, and it’s really insane looking at them now. Especially the old lungs vs new lungs.

I really hope I will get to meet with Eric’s family. Right now, I have to send a letter to the organ matching organization, and they look over it to make sure there’s no identifying information, and they pass it on to the family. Eventually, they will allow me to contact the family directly.

So overall things really couldn’t be better, I’m feeling great, Detroit sucks. My hockey season starts Sunday, USA plays Canada tonight in Jr hockey, and Olympic hockey is a month away.

It’s going to be a great 2010

Second City Hockey

by Battery on Jan 5, 2010 4:15 PM CST reply actions  

I should mention

The photoblog also has a lot of random poker stuff and just basically wasting time just waiting.

Second City Hockey

by Battery on Jan 5, 2010 4:15 PM CST up reply actions  

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